Baby 2.0: Fifteen weeks (and a gender reveal!!!!!!!)

Well, hey there, belly!  Where did that thing come from??

How far along? 15 weeks
Baby's size: Approximately 4 inches from head to booty and about 2.5 ounces.  

Total weight gain/loss: Two pounds.

Stretch marks? I am appalled to say I think I see some around my belly button.  Pretty sure this baby is higher and pushing out above my belly button.
Sleep? Thankfully it has improved a lot and I'm sleeping again!  

Maternity clothes? I can still wear my regular clothes, but have switched for the most part because it's more comfortable.
Best moment this week: Finding out what the baby is!!

Worst Moment: We went to our appointment determined to find out what the baby is and had our families and the Facebook world all excited about finding out the sex.  Well, the little stinker sat Indian style and had the cord between its legs for 15 minutes.  We had to leave the ultrasound room and see the doctor.  I spent a lot of time hopping up and down and considered standing on my head to get it to move, but fortunately, it moved its legs just enough to get a shot!  
Symptoms: I have had a lot of pain in my lower left abdomen and my back feels like it's in knots (but that's probably from all the coughing and sneezing I've done)

Miss Anything? Ummm don't think so.
Movement: I feel strong, strong pressure hard up against my skin next to my belly button. It's harder than flutters, but lighter than kicks.
Anything making you queasy or sick? Chicken.  Well, meat in general. 

Gender: It's a..................................................

GIRL!

What is baby up to? Amniotic fluid continuously moves through her nose and upper respiratory tract, helping the air sacs in her lungs develop.  Her legs are longer than her arms, and she can move all of her limbs.  Her eyelids are still fused shut for a while, but she can sense light and will likely move away from direct light that is shined on my belly.  She is also forming tastebuds for that first taste of milk! 

Meet Miss Riley!  I think she's already beautiful and so perfect!

Baby 2.0: Twelve Weeks (and life update)!

Maaaan, how life has changed since my last post in February 2014.

Shortly after my last post, Clay and I attended a marriage conference at Church of the Highlands.  It really opened our eyes to the lives we had been living for the last year and a half.  After Bryson was born, our lives changed more than we could have ever imagined.  When I went back to work, I left the house at 6:40 AM to drop him off at daycare and get to work by 7:30.  I often worked through lunch, and got home at 5:30-5:40 PM.  My nightly to do list was full, but the time to accomplish it was limited.

By the time I crossed everything off the list, Clay was often asleep.  We went weeks without spending any quality time together.  Even on weekends, we didn't want to let Bryson stay with grandparents because that was our best shot at real time with him.  Our marriage was fine, and we weren't having any problems, but with the way we had been living, it couldn't have continued.  As Clay says it, we were living each day for the next and that's no way to live.

Seriously, being a working mom is not for the feint of heart.  It takes a great deal of emotional strength, endurance and mental toughness.

At the conference, Clay felt as though God was telling him to trust that He had a plan for us.  We began discussing it and decided that it was time for me to walk away from the Corporate world and put my all into my AdvoCare business.  Making that change has been nothing short of amazing for us.  Not only is my business thriving, but our family is flourishing.  It moves me to tears to think of what it's done for us.  I get to live in the present now and really slow down and enjoy Bryson.  I don't live my life based off what the clock says any longer AND I finally get to make a difference with the work I do.

I know that what I do isn't for everybody, but it is for me, and I LOVE it.  I finally feel like I'm really working for something and not just doing a job for a paycheck.

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Earlier this year, we decided to go ahead and put our house back on the market.  In April, we got an offer and had to move pretty quickly as she wanted to close and take possession in three weeks!  We said goodbye for the very last time on May 4.

We are currently renting a townhouse while we wait on our new home to be built.  I am anxiously awaiting the amazing kitchen, incredible bathroom, huge laundry room and maaaassive bonus space!  Eek!  

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Before we got the offer on our house, we got two pink lines on a pregnancy test on our second month of trying.  Moving during first trimester nausea and fatigue was a whoooole lot of fun!  

We got to see him/her for the first time on April 22.  That little heartbeat was just as amazing as Bryson's always was.  Best sound in the world.  

We have A LOT of people on Team Girl - I guess since we already have a boy.  

How far along? 12 weeks
Baby's size: The baby is roughly the size of a plum (2.1 inches long and .49 ounces)
Total weight gain/loss: So far, 2 pounds.

Stretch marks? So far, so good.
Sleep? With so much going on in our lives right now, my mind doesn't want to turn off.  I fall asleep fine, but if I wake up for anything, I'm up for 2-3 hours at a time.  The crazy thing is that I'm not even thinking about the baby, but things we need for the new house, how to make moving easier with a new baby either almost here or a braaaand new baby.  

Maternity clothes? Since I wear elastic pants all the time now (SAHM uniform, you know?!), I'm in my regular clothes.  Even my tighter AdvoGear fits, but there's a definite bump. 
Best moment this week: At our 12-week appointment, I got to record the heartbeat.  He/She swam away every time I hit record.  Little stinker.  Nice and strong at 156!

Worst Moment: Nerves.  Not being able to feel the baby always makes me really nervous.  I try to believe that all is okay, but it's tough!
Symptoms: I'm following the same path I did with Bryson.  As most of the nausea passed and energy came back, I started getting more frequent headaches.  Two Tylenol and half a Spark actually help a lot.  I've also been sick with some sinus junk I can't get over.  Thanks, baby, for stealing my immune system.  

Miss Anything? Sleeping all night and liking vegetables.   
Movement: I felt flutters remarkably early.  No real movement yet, but I can feel bubbles right under my belly button a lot.
Anything making you queasy or sick? Chicken.  Well, meat in general.

Gender: Absolutely no idea.

What is baby up to? Most of the vital body systems are formed, and will begin maturing, meaning the organs and tissues will grow and develop quickly. His/her reflexes are developing, and (s)he's curling her fingers and toes AND (s)he's making the sucking motion with his/her mouth. The brain and kidneys are developing rapidly; (s)he's even beginning to teetee! With Bryson, I thought that was cute, but now all I can think is that (s)he's peeing in the water she breathes in.  Gross.  

Here is Bryson's 12-week post for comparison.

Oops, we did it again!

Hey there, blog land.  It's been a while since I've posted anything.  I've written a
few posts and never published, or decided to keep them private, but I'm back.... and for good reason!

WE DID IT AGAIN!

Baby #2 is ready to make his/her appearance in December! 

38 weeks: My LAST Bryson bumpdate

Pregnancy is an incredible thing.  I marvel at the complexity of a woman's body.  From conception through breastfeeding, a woman's body is amazing.  By the time most women learn of their impending arrival, the little one's heart and circulatory system are already functioning.  When breastfeeding, a woman's body knows exactly what her baby needs and produces the exact combination for maximum nutrition.

I've spent the last few months watching with amazement as my body followed a distinct road map to transition into Bryson's temporary home.  My blossoming belly has become his shelter, nurse, pillow, blanket, and favorite restaurant.  Oh, I almost forgot- it has also become his jungle gym. :)

My belly has also transformed into so much more.  For me, it has become a source of happiness when the stresses of life creep in.  When I get overwhelmed or upset, feeling my little guy squirming around instantly removes any negative emotions I feel.  Watching his little leg and foot extend in the ultrasound video is enough to completely remove me from a bad situation and transport me to a much happier place.  My belly is also a bridge between Clay and me.  We have a great relationship- one that I've dreamed of my entire life- but knowing that we created this little wiggle worm has strengthened our bond.  Seeing a muscular man's man talk to his son in utero is enough to make any girl weak in the knees.

While pregnancy isn't the most pleasant experience, it is the most pleasant experience.  Swollen feet and terrible back pain are often enough to bring the strongest woman to her knees (and make it difficult to get up), but baby kicks and hiccups make it all worth it.  I have spent countless hours staring at my belly in sheer bewilderment.  I love feeling and watching him move.  His playtime (or ninja skills practice) is the first activity that Bryson and I will ever do together.  For a few brief months, this little boy and I are joined together and I get to enjoy precious private time with my son, with no interruptions... and I don't have to share him.  Over the last few months, I've watched him learn and respond to mine and Clay's voices; I've seen him develop a little personality and learned he's a little feisty because he gets annoyed when he starts hiccuping... AGAIN.  I've watched as he curiously explored any and everything place on my belly, from a puppy paw to a Doppler.

While I can't wait to hold this little guy in my arms and to kiss each and every finger and toe, I have no doubt I'll miss our quiet times of solitude. I am more than thrilled to know that we will meet our little guy in 7 days or less.  Until then, I will relish the time that I have left to feel him stretch and wiggle.

How far along? 38 weeks

Baby's size:  Roughly 7 pounds and he could be 19-20 inches long

Total weight gain/loss:  29 pounds!  That means I'll just hit the 30 pound goal!!

Stretch marks?  I have some superficial ones below my belly button.  They still aren't ridged, so I'm hoping they're the disappearing variety. :)

Sleep?  Some nights, I sleep really well.  Others, notsomuch.

Best moment this week:  Scheduling the induction!!!  Unless he really gets impatient, our little man gets his eviction notice at 6 AM on Tuesday, July 3!

Worst Moment: Spending days thinking labor was imminent but not meeting our little guy.

Cravings: Nothing really.  I satisfied my peach craving with a cobbler (made with whole wheat flour, almond milk and Splenda, of course)

Symptoms:  I'm beginning to have labor signs!  I've lost part of my plug and am experiencing severe period-like cramps in my lower back.  I am having contractions, but they're still few and far between.  

Miss Anything?  Laying on my belly

Movement:  He's still a wiggle worm, but his movements have changed a great deal, even since Sunday.  He's definitely running out of room.

Anything making you queasy or sick?  Contractions!

Moody:  Nope, not really.

Wedding Rings On or Off?  Engagement ring is in my jewelry box, my wedding band is on and comfy.

Sex:  Baby Boy!

What is baby up to?  The bones in his arms and legs have hardened.  He is already very strong and is able to grasp the umbilical cord or can curl his hands into little balls.  Woo hoo!  That means he can also grasp mommy's fingers!!!

THIRTY-SEVEN WEEKS!!!!!!!

Take delight in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. - Psalm 37:4

This verse has stuck with me throughout my pregnancy and I thought it fitting that I would be reminded so poignantly of it this week.  Like most people, I used to read that Scripture as "Love God and He'll give you what you want."  That is, until a pastor friend of ours twisted my way of thinking.  He said that not only does God provide some of the things you want, but because He created you, He placed those desires in your heart.


One of the greatest desires of my heart throughout my life has been to be a mommy.  This week, our little man is full-term and can make his appearance anytime now.  God placed this desire on my heart as he was creating it in my mom's womb and He is seeing it through to fulfillment.  This girl is seriously blessed beyond measure. 

How far along? 37 weeks! We have a full-term baby!
Baby's size: Our doctor is guessing he'll be around 8 pounds when he arrives.
Total weight gain/loss: I'm up 28 pounds.
Stretch marks? I think so, but I can't really tell. The marks I see blend with the marks from the waistband of my pants, but aren't ridged. They're just weird.
Sleep? Outside of getting up for multiple trips to the bathroom, I'm sleeping pretty good. Clay, on the other hand, is not. My weedeater noises are keeping him up. I know he's ready to have his non-snoring, able-to-breathe wife back.
Best moment this week: Finding out that I am making progress and that we may be able to meet Bryson on July 3!
Worst Moment: Finding out that I kept Clay awake for at least 2 hours the other night. Poor thing needs his sleep too!
Cravings: Blackberries and Chinese food
Symptoms: Outside of lower back pain and some Braxton Hicks, nothing too bad.
Miss Anything? Laying on my belly.
Movement: Constant, but his movements are more rolling now. He stretches (or tries to anyway) a lot.
Wedding Rings On or Off? Engagement ring is off and very much missed. I'm still wearing my wedding band though.
Sex: Baby Boy, Bryson Reed!
What is baby up to? Just growing and getting ready to get out!
Labor signs? I am already dilating and effacing, plus I think I've started losing part of my plug. Woo hoo! Come on, little guy! If I am at least 2 cm dilated at our appointment next Tuesday, we can schedule an induction for Tuesday, July 3!!!!!!!

36 weeks!!!

How far along? 36 weeks! We're 6 days away from a full-term baby!

Baby's size: The average baby is 17.2-18.7 inches and weighs 4.2-5.8 pounds. I'm pretty sure B-Man is at the high range of that given the crazy growth spurts we've been having.

Total weight gain/loss: As of Tuesday, I've gained 27 pounds. I'll take it!

Stretch marks? I have these weird marks on my belly below my belly button, but I can't tell if they're veins or stretch marks. They're not ridged, so I'm hoping they're veins. I sure hope so, at least.

Sleep? I've slept really well the last two nights, even though I'm getting up a few times to potty. I learned the other day when my mean ol' husband videoed the few minutes I fell asleep in the truck that I'm sleeping with my tongue out. TMI but that explains the drool! Ha

Best moment this week: Spending unhurried quality time with my favorite person on our anniversary trip (more on that later).

Worst Moment: At the Braves game Saturday night, my feet swelled so much that my toes wouldn't bend. When I got up in the 7th inning, it felt like I was walking on knives.

Cravings: Currently, Mexican. Almost every day, Chinese.

Symptoms: Back pain and Braxton Hicks. The heartburn has subsided for the most part, thankfully. I'm having shooting pains in my chest and lower back that feels like lightning.

Miss Anything? Laying on my belly. I want to so, so, so bad. I will also never take breathing for granted again. - These answers won't change until he gets here.

Movement: His movements are constant but feel much less sharp now. They're more of a rolling feeling. His booty pops up really high sometimes.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Still don't want meat that's not on a bun or mixed with pasta or veggies.

Moody: Nope, not really. 

Wedding Rings On or Off? My wedding band is still on and fine. I decided to take off my engagement ring, just in case. I sure miss it. :( 

Sex: Baby boy! 

What is baby up to? He's really just rapidly gaining weight. All of his systems are good to go!

Labor signs? Nope, nothing yet. As of yesterday, I had made no progress. :(

34 weeks!

I've been trying to put together all of my weekly bumpdate pictures, so I thought I'd share a progression from before little man to now.

Nothing makes a huge pregnant girl sad quite like seeing her old body. Ha

Aaaand now...

How far along? 34 weeks! We're just 3 weeks away from a full-term baby!!

Baby's size: The average baby is roughly 18 inches long and 4.7 pounds. 

Total weight gain/loss: At the last appointment, I had gained 24 pounds. Not too shabby. 

Stretch marks? I have one tiny one on my hip. I'm fine with hips, let's just stay away from the belly, please. 

Sleep? Eh, our little guy likes to cuddle with my bladder at night night time, so I'm up 2-3 times a night at least. I wake myself up grunting to roll from side to side too. Clay also says I've picked up some weird snore/breathing hybrid. 

Best moment this week: I had two INCREDIBLE showers last week. I have some unbelievably amazing friends and coworkers. Bryson is one loved little boy. I'll definitely be blogging about those this week.

Worst Moment: I really have nothing to complain about! 

Cravings: Still coleslaw- finely chopped with mayo. Mmmm. Strawberries are making a big comeback too. 

Symptoms: Upper back pain. Surprisingly, my lower back has been fine, but my upper back is killing me. When I blow my nose in the morning, I'm still getting some blood. I've had frequent headaches again and am exhausted, of course. After 9:00 each night, I get restless foot (not leg, just the foot) aaaand have slight heartburn on occasion. 

Miss Anything? Laying on my belly. I want to so, so, so bad. I will also never take breathing for granted again. 

Movement: All. The. Time. His movements feel very different now that he's getting so big, but his little booty pops up around my belly button a lot. He's started stretching now- his booty will pop up to the left and I'll feel his little hand hit my right hip bone. 

Anything making you queasy or sick? Meat. Gag me. 

Moody: Nope, not really. 

Wedding Rings On or Off? Still on and comfy. 

Sex: Baby boy! 

What is baby up to? He has settled into his final position- he's head down! His digestive system is fully mature and the digestive enzymes in his gut are working. He's basically just packing on weight and his brain is continuing to develop. Otherwise, he's good to go!

Labor signs? Nope, nothing yet.

31 weeks!

I'm a terrible blogger. I take weekly belly pictures but they never seem to make it to the blog.  So much has happened since my last post, but I'll try to be brief.

Aunt Trisha graduated from Auburn on May 6.  Gena played photographer while Trisha tried to wake B up.

How far along? 31 weeks 

Baby's size: On average, a 31 week baby is 3.3 pounds and roughly 16 inches from head to heel. At our 28 week appointment, Bryson was already 2 pounds 14 ounces, so I assume he's probably past the 3.3 pounds mark. 

Total weight gain/loss: As of yesterday, I've gained 23 pounds, which is perfect! 

Stretch marks? I got hysterical the other day because I thought I saw one on my right hip, but it's miraculously gone. It must have been a mark from the sheets. Ha 

Sleep? Eh, it varies from night to night. I've had some nights of 8 straight hours, but those are few and far between. Most of the time, I get up to go to the bathroom at least once, maybe twice, a night. I've had a few nights of tossing and turning and threatening to wake Clay and the girls for company. 

Best moment this week: Hearing little man's heartbeat and that he and I are both perfectly healthy. 

Worst Moment: You got me! 

Cravings: Pineapple, strawberries and grapes. Oh, and watermelon. Seriously, I buy out the fruit each week at the grocery store. I've also been dying for coleslaw. Tell me that's not weird. 

Symptoms: With the additional weight, my frame is taking a hit. My back is in knots and no masseuse will really get in to break them down to keep toxins from getting to Bryson. I have an occasional bout of heartbeat and wake up each morning to a little blood in my nose. 

Miss Anything? You know, I miss a lot. I love being pregnant and feeling my little guy flopping around, but I'm to the point where I'm over pregnancy. The combination of a big ol' body and rhinitis make breathing difficult. I have to tinkle all the time. I've seriously gotten up and before flushing, have felt urgency again. My hips hurt, both from the additional weight and going back and forth between hips while I sleep. 

Movement: We have a wild man on our hands. Coworkers have seen him jerk when we're talking about work and they're not staring at my belly. Of the 16+ hours I'm awake each day, I feel him at least 13. He gets very active every night at 9:30. 

Anything making you queasy or sick? The thought of eating meat. Ick. 

Moody: I haven't truly been moody, but have been pretty emotional. It seems like I can't have a serious conversation with Clay without crying. 

Wedding Rings On or Off? On and still comfy. 

Sex: All boy. 

What is baby up to? He's getting hefty! Layers of fat are accumulating under his skin so his arms, legs and body will begin to fill out and his skin will become less wrinkle. Most of the vernix and lanugo are shedding. By now, he has a distinct sleep cycle. 

 In other news... I feel like the worst mom ever because I never posted after our 28 week ultrasound. Let's chalk it up to my excitement. As I posted previously, the 20 week ultrasound reveal choroid plexus cysts on our little man's brain. We had an ultrasound at 28 weeks to check his brain. As expected, his little brain is PERFECT and the cysts are GONE. Praise God! While they were looking at his head, I saw 30w4d pop up on the screen. Considering I was only at 28w2d gestation at the time, not only is his head perfect, it's big! *shudder* It appears he wasn't thrilled with us during the ultrasound. We must have been disrupting his nap. He wakes up like his daddy

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 Our first shower is this Sunday, which is Mother's Day. Trisha is hosting it at Grandmama's. Not only do I get quality time with my family, but Caitlin is bringing Miss Sydney, who just joined the Bates clan on April 20. I'm so excited! 

 Bryson's room is ALMOST done. As soon as we finish touching up some spots in the guest room and can move everything back in there, Bryson's room is less than a day away from completion. Choosing things for his room has been so fun. I'm pretty sure Clay disagrees because as he says, I'm "nickel and diming us." I can't help it! My baby needs a football rug! :)


We had our second childbirth class last night.  So far, I haven't gotten a ton out of the classes, mostly because I've researched a lot on my own and talked to the doctor a good bit.  It's still making it seem VERY real that we're about to be parents.  Last night, Clay tried on the empathy belly.  Yes, I took pictures, but no, I better not post them... yet.  He would kill me.  Clay, in case you're reading this, the pictures have been backed up, so deleting them from my phone would be futile... and dangerous.  ;)

27 weeks. Hello, 3rd trimester!

Not the best picture, but I had to use what I had since tonight we're hanging with Magic Johnson... kinda.

How far along? 27 weeks. Third trimester feels pretty good!

Baby's size: The average baby is approximately 2 pounds (and typically boys are heavier) and 14.4 inches from head to toe.

Total weight gain/loss: With all the Easter candy I've consumed lately, I prefer not to think about it.

Stretch marks? Not yet and I hope that remains.

Sleep? For the most part, I'm sleeping great. I'm ready for busy season to be over so Clay's alarm is set for after 7:00 again, instead of between 3:40 and 5:00.

Best moment this week: Listening to our little guy go nuts on the Doppler for so long. Bryson also got his first Easter gift, which was awesome!

Worst Moment: Spending an hour in the hospital worrying about what was going on with Bryson (click here for story). Oh, and being checked for dilation. I felt like the detectives from Law & Order SVU would show up anytime after being violated like that.

Cravings: Salt & vinegar chips

Symptoms: Outside of a few Braxton Hicks contractions, nada!

Miss Anything? Until I flop on my belly after he's born, that will be my answer.

Movement: He's a wild man- I feel him almost constantly.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Meat. Ick.

Moody: Nope!

Wedding Rings On or Off? On and very comfy.

Sex: All boy.

What is baby up to? His digestive and circulatory systems continue to develop. His little boy organs are in their proper location and his testicles may have already descended into the scrotum (I'm sure he'll love reading this one day). His eyes have been closed since week 9 and are opening again, though they won't properly respond to light just yet. The retina should begin maturing this week, which will soon allow him to receive light and transmit the image to his brain.

Nana and Paw Paw (Clay's parents) got Bryson his very first Easter present. He got a book with singalong CD and this:

How cute is this puppy??? His eyes even wiggle.

26 weeks!

My camera decided to make me pink.  Fabulous.

How far along? 26 weeks and 1 day

Baby's size: Approximately 1.7 pounds and 14 inches long

Total weight gain/loss: As far as I know, still 17 pounds

Stretch marks? Nope. *knock on wood*

Sleep? I wasn't sleeping well due to back and neck pain, but after going to the chiropractor Monday, I'm much better. I slept through the night last night and didn't get up ONCE!

Best moment this week: Clay's friend had a baby this week and he already has a few pairs of Jordans. Clay started rubbing my belly and asking Bryson if he wanted them too. He kicked his hand. Clay's face lit up- I'm pretty sure the hunt for Bryson's MJ's will be on as soon as tax season is over.

Worst Moment: Drawing a blank. I have no complaints!

Cravings: My cravings are back to being suggestive. I went down the aisle that has hot dog chili on it at the grocery store and ended up with all the ingredients for chili dogs. I've done the same with jelly beans. Until I got pregnant, I haven't had jelly beans in years.

Symptoms: Just some round ligament pain.

Miss Anything? Sleeping on my belly.

Movement: Constant. He's pretty low, so if I bend just slightly, I can feel him every time. I feel him most hours of the day and each night, he turns into a wild man. I'm feeling more consistent flutters in my ribs lately too.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Chicken. Gag me. I made chicken marsala the other day, hoping that disguising the chicken in mushrooms and onions would help. Nope. I put one piece in my mouth, chewed it, and spit it out.

Moody: Nope!

Wedding Rings On or Off? On, comfortably. Ask me this when it hits 100 in a month or so.

Sex: Boy, boy, boy.

What is baby up to? He is gaining weight more consistently now. While his brain is still smooth because he doesn't have neural connections yet, it is developing rapidly. In the coming weeks, those connections will form. The nerve pathways in his ears continue to develop- he's definitely showing me he can hear external noises. He jumps at loud noises. Yesterday at lunch, someone dropped something and made a very loud noise. He kicked me VERY hard and didn't settle down until we got back to work. He can now make coordinated movements, like sucking his thumb or even his foot.

In other B-Man news, his nursery is coming together. I'm not showing any of it until we get it done, but I'll show a few pieces.

How jealous are you of my totally matching outfit?

On our trip to IKEA, Heather, Laura and I picked up Bryson's chest of drawers. I was too impatient to wait until busy season was over, so I put it together. Unfortunately I can't the drawers secured by myself, so that's a Clay job.

My friend, Julia, added B's monogram to the diaper stacker for me. I liked it before, but I think his monogram adds a lot to it. She's a genius!

I worked on his room some last night and when I walked out, Jenna took the opportunity to get in her favorite spot. We had to move the recliner in Bryson's room temporarily. It'll eventually go in the man cave when we move, but for now, she thinks we put this here for her.

She even bathes her babies on "her" recliner.

25 weeks!!

How far along? 25 weeks and 1 day

Baby's size: I wish I knew how big he really is. Since he was bigger than average at our 20 week appointment, I'm totally thrown off. At 25 weeks, the average baby is approximately 1.5 pounds and 13.7 inches from head to toe.

Total weight gain/loss: 17 pounds. I'm allowed 13 more.

Stretch marks? Nope! *knock on wood*

Sleep? I wake up like clockwork around midnight to potty. It's so weird. I'm sleeping pretty good for the most part.

Best moment this week: I had my first true alien baby moment this week. On Monday night, I was laying in bed when his dance party started. My belly was going all over the place- much more than the usual small jabs I get.

Worst Moment: Passing out after my glucose tolerance test. I had roughly 12 minutes left until I had to have my blood drawn the last time I checked the clock. I read for a few more minutes, then realized I was not well. The woman next to me got help and I remember my nurse making it to me, saying I couldn't see her... then waking up on the floor. My doctor said the glucose makes your pancreas go into overdrive, which can make blood sugar levels plummet, causing you to pass out. Hey, at least I passed the test!

Cravings: Pineapple and thanks to a friend, gummy bears.

Symptoms: My headaches are coming back and I'm having a bit more round ligament pain. Well, it could be a foot lodged for all I know. He's all over the place.

Miss Anything? Sleeping on my belly and raw cookie dough.

Movement: Soooooo much and for so long. On Monday, he moved consistently from 4:30 AM until about 7:00 PM, then started up again a little after 8:00. The next day was a 10 hour dance party.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Sometimes I just feel nauseous, but haven't figured out a reason behind it.

Moody: Nope.

Wedding Rings On or Off? On, easily.

Sex: All boy!

What is baby up to? Little man is becoming less little with each passing week. He's developing more and more fat (hey, it's cute in utero and who can resist chubby arms on a baby, so keep growing, kiddo!) and his skin is beginning to smooth out. His spine is beginning to form, as are his capillaries. The air sacs and blood vessels in his lungs are developing so he'll be ready to breathe when he gets here. Finally, his nostrils, which have been plugged up to this point, are beginning to open. If he were to grace us with his presence right now, he would have an 82% chance of surviving with aggressive ICU treatment. Of course, I'd love him to bake AT LEAST another 12 weeks.

One other little fact I think is cute is that he's yawning in there. I love little baby yawns and can't wait to see our little guy do it!

24 weeks!

How far along? 24 weeks

Baby's size: He is over a pound and roughly 11.8 inches long, comparable to an ear of corn. Of course, considering he was a pound 4 weeks ago, there's no telling how big he is now.

Total weight gain/loss: I think my scale at home must like me because I thought it was only 8 for awhile. It was definitely 13 at my last appointment.

Stretch marks? Nope, not yet... and hopefully not ever. Bio Oil and cocoa butter are my BFFs.

Sleep? I have rhinitis of pregnancy, so breathing is pretty difficult, which makes sleep harder to come by.

Best moment this week: Seeing my belly jump for the first time. Bryson is very active throughout the day, but gets rowdy between 9:00 and 10:00 each night. I think he's practicing his ninja skills.

Worst Moment: I had my first bout of Braxton Hicks contractions last night. I could definitely do without them; it was scary until I realized what it was! My weirdo circadian rhythm is all messed up, so I often wake up and expect it to be 5:30 or 6:00, only to discover it's only 11:15. :(

Cravings: I wouldn't be surprised if he was born with grapes for eyes. I could live off them, pineapple and salt & vinegar chips.

Symptoms: Outside of Braxton Hicks, I'm having a slight bit of round ligament pain again every once in awhile.

Miss Anything? Sleeping on my belly. *whine*

Movement: Lots. We have an active little guy.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Meat that isn't in a casserole, soup or on a sandwich. I can handle chicken fingers/nuggets though.

Moody: Nope, not really. If you asked Clay, he'd say I haven't been mad, but cry a lot. I say I don't cry more than usual. What? I'm a sap!

Wedding Rings On or Off? On and very comfortable.

Sex: All boy, for sure.

What is baby up to? At 24 weeks, he would be "viable" if he were born early. The survival rate of a baby born in this week is 40% with neonatal intensive care and hospitals would automatically perform whatever lifesaving procedure necessary.

His lungs are beginning to develop little branches and in coming weeks, will start producing surfactant, a substance that will prevent the lungs from sticking to each other and will help him breathe when he makes his appearance.

Keratinization starts this week. New skin cells that are created in the deepest part of his skin will move toward the surface. Once they become part of his epidermis, they will be shed and the process will begin again.


In other Bryson news, we finally registered for the things Little Man will need. I am even more excited about his arrival after picking out cute baby things. Anybody who looks at our Babies 'R' Us registry is going to think we're very sports obsessed. I'm not sure why- perhaps it's the 472 sports themed receiving blankets or even the football pacifiers I'm dying for.

And well, to add to that thought, Bryson's wreath is done. I wanted to have something on his door, but decided to come up with something out of my norm.

20 weeks! HALFWAY THERE

Wow, I have a lineman belly button. Eek!

How far along? 20 weeks (and technically 1 day)

Baby's size: At 20 weeks, measurements are no longer from head to booty, but instead head to toe. Bryson is roughly ten inches long! That's a big ol' boy!

Total weight gain/loss: 8 pounds gained, although after last night's meal at the Cheesecake Factory, I'm afraid to weigh.

Stretch marks? Nope, nope. Thank goodness!

Sleep? I'm sleeping a lot better lately *knock on wood*.

Best moment this week: Hitting the halfway mark is amazing. The last few months have flown by and I hope that trend continues... until he gets here. At that point, I want to figure out how to slow down time because the thought of my baby growing up already makes me sad.

Worst Moment: Again, I'm drawing a blank. Maybe when the chalkboard craft I attempted failed. And by failed, I mean the glass shattered and stuck in my finger. Yes, that's totally pregnancy related because it's supposed to be a photo prop.

Cravings: I'm becoming a pregnancy stereotype. I am LOVING ice cream lately. I've never been a big ice cream person, so it's definitely a change for me.

Symptoms: I really don't have much as far as symptoms go. My only real complaint is that I can't breathe! Cleaning the house, working out and even walking to my car from work are exhausting!

Miss Anything? Sleeping on my belly. I'm usually a side sleeper, but I like having the option to change it up and give my hips a break.

Movement: I haven't felt him as much lately and honestly, it freaks me out. I learned last night that I'm not the only one that has those concerns, so I feel much better.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Still just meat.

Moody: Nope, not really.

Wedding Rings On or Off? On

Sex: Boy!

What is baby up to? Little man is practicing breathing and swallowing on a regular basis. He is continuing to grow pretty steadily and his head is becoming more proportional to his body. His skin is becoming more complex. The epidermis (outer layer of skin) has four layers that contain ridges to form fingerprints! For the first time, he has tooth buds under his gums! His stomach, intestines, liver and other abdominal organs are enclosed in the abdominal cavity.

19 weeks!

How far along? 19 weeks (and 2 days today)

Baby's size: He is roughly 6 inches from crown to booty and weighs about 8.5 ounces.

Total weight gain/loss: I'm thinking 5ish pounds.

Stretch marks? Nope. Bio Oil and I are tight.

Sleep? It's improved a lot the last few weeks. I still get up to tinkle just about every night, but I usually go right back to sleep. I've been exhausted.

Maternity clothes? Other than a few shirts, I'm in all maternity clothes.

Best moment this week: Clay put his ear to my belly last night and could hear the sounds. Even though he couldn't feel Bryson's movement, he was able to tell when he moved just by the sound.

Worst Moment: I'm drawing a blank here. I can't think of a thing.

Cravings: My cravings are all suggestive- I usually see something and want it. I have wanted a lot of salt lately and that's just not like me.

Symptoms: Not really. I still have some food aversions/nausea, but nothing too bad. I have absolutely no depth perception, which I've read is very common in the second trimester because your center of gravity changes so much. Steps are basically off-limits because I'm already clumsy enough as is.

Miss Anything? Sleeping on my belly. I never really did it often, but it was a good change from my sides.

Movement: Little man is moving like crazy. I feel him really low still and it's becoming pretty frequent. When Clay and I carry on a conversation, he really starts moving.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Meat. Gag.

Moody: Not really. I'm still crying at Hallmark commercials like I always have.

Wedding Rings On or Off? On

Sex: Boy!!

What is baby up to? He's growing like a weed! Not only are his bones starting to harden, but he's also getting some fat on him now. I'm so ready to see those little chubby fingers and knees! :) B-Man's brain is becoming more complex and is developing pockets that specialize in taste, hearing, vision and even touch. His outer ears have developed enough so he can pick up outside noises, including our voices.

I had a Pottery Barn gift card left over from our wedding that I was never going to use. I decided to use it at Pottery Barn Kids and got B-Man a pillow and a diaper bag.

My sweet friend, Christy, owner of Yarn Over Little Rock sent Bryson the cutest hat. Tell me this isn't the cutest thing you've ever seen. I HIGHLY suggest you check out her shop. She's my favorite Etsy seller by far!

We get to see our little guy one more time next week. This should be the last ultrasound we have, so the next time we lay eyes on Bryson, he'll be in our arms! I have faith that next week's scan will show he's perfectly healthy and developing right on time!

18 weeks

Hopefully I'll be less sick next week and will include my head. :)

How far along? 18 weeks!

Baby's size: According to womenshealthcaretopics.com, he's roughly 5.6 inches from head to booty and 6.7 ounces.

Total weight gain/loss: I've been so sick since last Wednesday and have lost some weight. I couldn't swallow, so I couldn't eat, so I couldn't gain weight. I'm up about 3 pounds now.

Stretch marks? Nope, not yet. I have cocoa butter with Vitamin E at home, my desk at work and in my purse. I'm also buying Bio Oil tonight!

Sleep? Being sick last week messed up my sleep, so my body is exhausted. All I want to do now is sleep and I'm actually getting some. I was dead to the world last night and am feeling a little better!

Maternity clothes? Yup.

Best moment this week: Feeling Bryson move. Since I had a fever last Wednesday, I panicked. It never went above 99.3, but I'm a mother and I worry. When I felt him move, I felt soooo much better.

Worst Moment: Being sick and worrying about the health of my little guy. When I'm sick, I'm a baby, so add in pregnancy hormones and a mom's concern and well, I was a mess. At one point, I cried because I was afraid my hacking coughs weren't letting him get good sleep that I know he needs. Hahahaha.

Cravings: M&Ms. I have been dreaming about them! I'm still on a green grape kick. Last night I told Clay I needed Mexican.

Symptoms: Outside of occasional headaches, none really. I have round ligament pain every once in awhile, but nothing like a few weeks ago. I really can't complain- pregnancy has been a breeze so far.

Miss Anything? Being able to do normal activities without getting winded. Since I've started showing, I've been getting winded easier and being sick isn't making it any easier to breathe.

Movement: I have small movements below my belly button. It's like his hand or foot just brushes up against my belly. I can tell when he's moving around a lot, but he's still not big enough for anybody else to see or feel.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Umm, everything. Thanks sinus infection and whatever else I have.

Moody: I can honestly say I have pretty regulated moods. I'm not one to get angry quickly anyway and being pregnant hasn't changed that. I've always been a sap and well, pregnancy makes me tear up even more I think.

Wedding Rings On or Off? On. No swelling anywhere yet. *knock on wood*

Sex: All boy!

What is baby up to?
He is a pro at yawning, hiccuping, sucking and swallowing now.

A protective covering, Myelin, is covering the nerves (fun fact from the science nerd- when babies are born, all of their nerves aren't myelinated, which is why a baby's entire body wiggles when you tickle his foot. He literally feels it all over instead of just his foot).

His lungs are continuing to develop and will until he's been baking for 37 weeks. His windpipe has branched into 2 bronchi (airways) and each of the bronchi will continue to branch out into smaller bronchioles for the next 10 weeks.

His outer ear is well developed and he can hear what's going on outside his home. I try to talk to him a lot and can't wait to get my voice back so he won't think it's Fran Drescher talking to him. :)


In other B-Man news, I have INCREDIBLE friends. Seriously. I've already posted that Heather brought him an outfit (sorry babe, I forgot- boys don't wear outfits) a very masculine onesie and rugged sweats, complete with cargo pockets. OMG those pockets just set the whole look off. Love, love, love it!


I got home last week and had a package in the mailbox. My friend, Malerie, and her husband, Jason, sent Bryson 2 pairs of the cutest athletic pants I've ever seen in my life and a 5 pack of onesies. Their card made me bawl like a baby. Thank you so much!


On Friday, I got home from a 2.5 hour doctor's appointment and felt rough. I had two packages at the door, one of which was addressed directly to Bryson. I had to show my stepdad how awesome it was that Bry got his first package. I even saved the box to upcycle for something. (Told you I'm a sap) My friend Stephanie sent him some AWESOME new kicks. Of course this now means I'll be on the hunt for some Auburn ones too, but at least he's covered for football season this year! Thank you, Stephanie! I love them!

I was deathly ill and didn't notice the picture was super blurry, but these are the stock images.  I'll replace this picture when I get home, Steph!

Totally unrelated, but I've been trying to sit up a little more while I'm sleeping so my sinuses won't drain and choke me all night, so I haven't been sleeping with my Snoogle. My two furbabies are liking that I can't sleep with it.

17 weeks!

It's a nasty day out and I'm sick, so primping for a picture wasn't happening. :)
I'm finally big enough from the front for people to know I'm pregnant and not just fat!

How far along? 17 weeks, 1 day

Baby's size: He is approximately 5.1 inches long and weighs about 5.9 ounces

Total weight gain/loss: I'm holding steady at 7 gained

Stretch marks? None so far. I dreamed about them last night though.

Sleep? I'm sleeping okay, but have to get up to tinkle... a lot. B-Man has a favorite toy- a bladder-shaped trampoline.

Maternity clothes? I'm basically wearing all maternity pants now. I'm still good in regular shirts. I got some full-panel active pants the other day and OMG, it's like slipping into Heaven.

Best moment this week: Getting the nursery put together a bit better. Oh, and spending Friday night shopping for Bryson.

Worst Moment: Realizing I have a fever. I'm watching it like a hawk, but it's still low, so I think Bry is okay, but I can't help but worry.

Cravings: I think I could live off green grapes.

Symptoms: Occasional headache and my gums are bleeding when I floss, but other than that, nothing really.

Miss Anything? Breathing normally. I seriously stay winded.

Movement: He's been pretty active this morning, but still isn't big enough for his kicks to show externally. He still feels like a little fish flopping.

Anything making you queasy or sick? Meat. I'm still eating it, but I've had to be creative with mixing it in things.

Sex: Boy! Bryson Reed Stoker

What is baby up to? This week, Bryson's cartilage begins to turn to bone AND he's putting on some weight. (He needs some- did you see those skinny legs?) He can open and close his mouth and even yawn when he's sleepy (I yawned typing that- did you yawn when you read it?)


In other baby news, I finished his name for the above the crib. The letters are still wet in this picture, but you get the idea. We're not doing a theme because well, I'm not a theme girl and I want his room to be able to easily grow with him. Instead, we're doing a color scheme. His room will be navy blue and a medium-gray. I hope to have his crib put together in the coming weeks and have 2 more DIY projects in the works!

16 weeks... and the baby is......

How far along? 16 weeks and 2 days

Baby's size: The ultrasound showed roughly 11 centimeters from the top of the head to the bottom of the booty. Little one sure has some long legs to add to those 11 centimeters, though.

Total weight gain/loss: Up 7 pounds/

Stretch marks? None so far. I'm drinking water like a fish and lathering myself in every lotion and oil you can think of.

Sleep? Ugh. What's that?

Maternity clothes? I'm about to have to buy a whole new wardrobe. This kiddo is growing like a weed!

Best moment this week: Feeling a little fish flopping right below my belly button and seeing it swimming on the ultrasound. What tops both of those was seeing between his/her little legs...

Worst Moment: Another terrible dream. Ready for those to stop now.

Cravings: Wings. I want them BAD.

Symptoms: Outside of the aforementioned wings, I still don't want meat.

Miss Anything? Normal, uninterrupted sleep full of pleasant dreams.

Movement: I have what feels like a fish flopping about 3 inches below my belly button. It's soooo weird. I keep staring at my belly to see if I can see anything from the outside.

Anything making you queasy or sick? I keep gagging when I brush my teeth. So, so gross.

Sex: Well, ladies and gentlemen, Baby Stoker is a ..............................................
BOY!!!!! His name is Bryson. :)

What is baby up to? Bryson has a strong heartbeat (120, then 140 at our appointment). He is now able to hear due to the tiny bones forming in his ears. I've been having conversations with him a lot lately. He is growing hair, eye lashes and eye brows AND he's forming taste buds (eww amniotic fluid!). He's roughly 4 inches from crown to rump, so he would fit perfectly in our hands. He can open and close his mouth and is even yawning! (Darn it, that made me yawn)

Having this ultrasound where he looks like a human has turned me into THAT mother. I'm showing off pictures, even though nobody ever knows what they're looking at.

Here are a few of the ultrasound pictures. He wasn't shy about showing his... umm... winky off. This is the one time I will be glad he's showing it off. Give me a few years when he's in the discovery and "show me yours and I'll show you mine" phase and I'll think differently. :)

Head on the left.  His legs are waaaay above his head.

Head on the left. His little arm is jutting out.  We said he was flexing.

Most obviously a boy. :)

This one's blurry, but shows the best view of the profile of his wittle face (on left)

Isn't he the cutest little thing you've ever seen?

15 weeks!

Terrible, terrible picture.  This is the last week of unplanned pictures, I promise.

How far along? 15 weeks

Baby's size: Baby S is roughly 4 inches long and weighs 2.5 ounces, comparable to an orange!

Total weight gain/loss: I'm guessing my total gained is about 6 pounds.

Stretch marks? No. I discovered coconut oil and am about to add that to my routine.

Sleep? Ugh. I'm not accustomed to waking up in the middle of the night. It seems like every time I get up to use the bathroom, I'm awake for hours. This morning, I woke up at 2, tiptoed around Bailey to get to the bathroom and back, then was WIDE. AWAKE. for an hour. Pure torture!

Maternity clothes? I think I may wear maternity clothes forever. They're so comfy!

Best moment this week: I felt the first baby flutters today. It makes me giddy!

Worst Moment: Being awake for almost 3 hours Saturday night while the rest of my family snoozed. It makes me jealous!

Cravings: Chocolate and/or ice cream.

Symptoms: Just headaches, which have subsided slightly. I finally got a prescription because Tylenol doesn't touch the pain, but haven't had to take it.

Miss Anything? Uninterrupted sleep. Are you seeing a pattern here?

Movement: Well, I said this above. I am feeling flutters in my lower left abdomen. It's unlike anything I've ever felt. When I tried describe it earlier, I said to imagine swallowing a live butterfly and it's trying to get out. That's how it feels- sooooo weird, but so cool!

Anything making you queasy or sick? I still can't stand the thought of plain meat, but am able to eat it mixed with veggies.

Sex: Clay and I decided to do an elective ultrasound at our appointment next week so we can find out the sex early! I. CAN'T. WAIT!!!

What is baby up to? All of his/her joints and limbs are moving now. I can't wait to see the little swimmer on the ultrasound! We are basically in maturation phase- everything in his/her little body has begun forming but are maturing so they can operate outside my belly! The highlight of our week was finding out that the baby can hear some things from the outside world. If you see me out and it looks like I'm talking to myself, fear not- I'm talking to my child! He/she already owns a ton of books, so we may be reading tonight. :)

14 (my new favorite number) Weeks!

On Monday, January 9, the University of Alabama Crimson Tide won its 14th national title and on Tuesday, January 10, I was officially 14 weeks pregnant. I think it's safe to say I have a new favorite number.
GROW BABY GROW
&
ROLL TIDE ROLL!

How far along? 14 weeks (and 3 days since I'm posting on Friday)

Baby's size: Roughly 3.4 inches and 1.5 ounces, comparable to a lemon!

Total weight gain/loss: Still holding at 5 pounds

Stretch marks? Nope.

Sleep? Because of all the stretching my body is doing and the cold & rainy weather, I'm soooo sore. I've been sleeping with a pillow between my knees, but it's not working. I'm getting a pregnancy pillow this weekend, so I'm hoping it will help me sleep better.

Maternity clothes? I broke down and bought some shirts last weekend, mostly so I'd have some that are long enough for leggings.

Best moment this week: This is not pregnancy related, but the highlight of the week so far was Alabama winning the national championship. I had a feeling we'd come out firing on all cylinders and that we did. So, so proud of my boys.

Worst Moment: Waking up at 3:30AM and not going back to sleep for 2 hours. I always fall asleep right before my alarm goes off.

Cravings: I can't get enough fruit. I made an awesome fruit salad with watermelon, kiwi, pineapple, grapes and strawberries last weekend and am currently halfway through my second large bowl. I'll be sad when it's all gone. Most of my other cravings are pretty suggestive and just because I see them on TV or someone mentions them.

Symptoms: Stretching pains and constant headaches. Again I say, Tylenol does not work!

Miss Anything? Hot baths. I don't like all these lukewarm ones I'm taking. :)

Movement: I thought I felt something, but I think it's still too early.

Anything making you queasy or sick? I still can't stand the idea of meat unless it's mixed in to something.

Sex: 6 more weeks!

What is baby up to? SO MUCH! He/she is probably sucking his/her thumbs and wiggling his/her toes. The kidneys are making urine and the liver and spleen are operating too! Lanugo, a peach-fuzz like hair is growing over the body to help keep him/her warm. The ears are starting to move to the side of the head and the eyes continue to get closer together. Our sweet little one is even beginning to grow eyebrows!

13 weeks!

How far along? 13 weeks (and 1 day)
Baby's size: The baby is roughly the size of a peach (2.9 inches long and .81 ounces)
Total weight gain/loss: As of my appointment on 12/27, I had gained 5 pounds (in a month). I hope I haven't gained any since.
Stretch marks? Nope.
Sleep? I'm sleeping okay, but having really weird dreams. Last week's standout dream was the weirdest so far- we had coyotes and sharks in our backyard and Jenna kept trying to play with them. I woke up in panic looking for her.
Maternity clothes? I'm in regular shirts, but it's definitely looking like I have a spare tire. I've had two people (whom I don't know) be able to tell I'm pregnant, so it's encouraging I don't just look like I should step away from the desserts. My Belly Band is keeping me in my jeans, but I have some maternity pants for work. Sitting all day in a belly band is for the birds.
Best moment this week: Finishing my first baby project. I got a sewing machine at Christmas and have been itching to make a blankie. It's not perfect, but it turned out much better than I expected, especially considering this is the first time I've ever used a sewing machine. :)

Worst Moment: I had a bad dream that signified miscarriage. I woke up in a cold sweat and in tears. I know God's hand is on this little peach, so I had to shake it off and let it go!
Symptoms: Headaches galore! Tylenol is seriously the worst pain reliever ever invented. It doesn't work and it's the only thing that's safe for baby.
Miss Anything? Hot baths and Advil!
Movement:
Anything making you queasy or sick?
Gender: 6 weeks and 6 days until we know. This is a test of patience.
What is baby up to? His/her vocal cords and teeth are already forming! He/she already has fingerprints! How awesome is that? The umbilical cord is moving to a more permanent place and the intestines are moving further into the body. His/her pancreas is producing insulin, which will regulate sugar levels when he/she makes the grand appearance.

His/her head to body ratio is straightening out some. The head is now only about 1/3 of the size of his/her body compared to the 1/2 it has been. Muscle control is developing, but he/she still doesn't have much control. My little frog baby is looking a bit more human since his/her eyes are moving closer together. The toes have separated into sweet, separate little digits and are the same length and the joints in the ankles have matured. Geez, there's so much going on in there!